The First Movie as a Family

So yesterday we took Neev to see the much talked “MI-4”. I and he have been to the Rio movie before and he sat through that just fine. However, we still were nervous. But he sat through the movie like a champ. He saw the movie while munching on the testy popcorn, no trouble at all.  He seem to enjoy the movie as such but every once in a while he would say “Ab dinosaur aayenge (not dinosaur will come)”. The movie itself was a a terrific thriller with great action sequences. The best one being where Mr Cruise is hanging more than 100 stories up on the glass windows of the Burj Khalifa in Dubai, the world’s tallest building.  PLAIN, SIMPLE AWESOME !!

Should we have taken him to the movies with so much guns and explosion, probably not, but we did. We obviously are not planning to make it a habit but every once is while when something like this comes us you have to do it …

On another note, as it was beginning of the new year so we did our good parents duty and took Neev to A Gurudwara (Thanks to Ank** and Man**) and also to the Jain temple. So we sort of balanced the bad deed (movie) with good deed (temple), at least in our head.

He also got a hair cut today and looks awesome..!!!

On a sad note, tomorrow schools and office open after a long holiday break. We are not looking forward to the busy life to say the least.

Booked the Tickets !!!

Now its been several times we are taking the little man in the car to doctors, temple and shopping. I think he seems to enjoy the change in scenery. However most times he did exactly what we think he would: sleep. Since the good news on his health is out, and with all the green signals from doctors, we thought it will be best to book the tickets to India for the much awaited trip. So grand parents can finally see the “apple of their eyes”.

Of course, once we booked the ticket, we (specially mommy since she will be traveling alone with him) suddenly got very nervous. Very, very nervous. Like, agoraphobic, never-leave-the-house-again nervous. We’re about to become the people we’ve despised and bitched about for many, many trips. The tides have most certainly turned and I am terrified of the fate that lies ahead. The more she thought about the plane ride and the potential meltdowns, the more she shriveled up inside. I am a foolish, brazen, fate-tempter. What was I thinking: a one hour car ride is like a walk around the block compared to a 18 hour plane ride, with a plane change in Newark, Surrounded by strangers. All looking at That Woman with the Ticking Time Bomb. As the time to finally have that plane ride was approaching she ran through every possible reaction in her head to counter the baby-hating passengers: break the ice by handing out ear plugs. Shrug her shoulders and say “Babies! Whatcha gonna do.”. Throw a little guilt their way – “Far be it from me and my tiny son to interrupt your Zagat-rated meal and the Oscar-winning Scary Movie 4!” And if all else fails, just cry when he cries.

In preparation for her journey, we’ve been online researching travel tips and checklists. The amount of stuff this kid is going to need for his trip to India is ridiculous !! But with a baby, I’ve learned quickly that you can never play it too safe. You really do kind of need EVERYTHING for all WHAT-IF scenarios – because they CAN and WILL happen.

Flyingwithkids.com suggested this travel tip: Wear spunky clothes and dark glasses so that other passengers think you are someone famous enjoying quality time with your kids.

That should be easy, let me see ..there should be a plent of place for a few costume changes for “The Mommy”. They should come right after onesies, sleepers, socks, diapers, bath wash, lotion, medicine, the snot sucker, ear swabs, wipes, the binky, rattle, blankets, sheets, bottles, drop-in refills, bibs, a thermometer, receiving towels, disinfectant, a sun hat, jacket, stoller, the birth certificate, books, nail clippers, wash clothes and toys. And that’s just for baby…DO NOT FORGET 1 TON BABY FORMULA !!

Playing costume, you will be lucky to remember to pack your underwear amist this detailed baby pack-up and these people are suggesting dress-up ??? …. I am sure whoever is writing these tips have no kids or never ever have travelled with Kids.

I am sure you all can’t wait to hear about his first plane ride …keep listening !!!